Re-introduction Part 1

So, I was thinking that it is probably a good idea to re-introduce our family. We may have changed since you last saw us here.

This picture was taken Thanksgiving 2009 at the Cross Ranch (Gran and Papa's new playground) we love it there, but more on that in another post.

B is six years old, R had just turned five years old, and L is one year old.

Yes, we actually got a good group photo!! Thanks, Mimi!

Now I will begin a little catch up with each of my guys.....starting with my main squeeze.

Victor is still working for residential builder and for the past year we have been very blessed b/c he has been working in a neighborhood just 5 minutes from home and he enjoys his work.

He still likes to hunt and does so whenever he gets a chance. However, over the past several years this is the view that he enjoys the most.

Several, years ago he decided that of all his hobbies fresh water fishing comes out on top....and THEN he got a yak and he was in love!!

That's short for kayak, for all of you non-fisher persons (myself included.) ;)

Yes, now he continually yearns to be fishing on a river!!

In addition, he continues to serve the Church as a deacon focusing most of his energies to that end on the areas of worship and building and grounds maintenance.

He is always moving towards improvement. God has blessed our family with a wonderful leader. He continues to show kindness, love, and spiritual growth! We are thankful for him each and everyday!

Nothing on TV

Sometimes, when there is nothing good on television you learn something about yourself...........

What? You don't? Oh well, it's probably just me......

You see, one night not to long ago we were flipping through the channels and my honey happened to stop on a program about hoarders. You know, the one where people are more or less burying themselves alive within the walls of their home. Don't panic, this isn't going where you think!

Anyway, the program exposed a woman who just couldn't seem to give up any of her stuff even though she was surrounded by filth.

Then a psychologist was asked how and/or why a hoarding problem begins. It was explained that for some people, after they face a traumatic loss they are then unable and unwilling to give up something and eventually they can't part with anything and they tend to accumulate more and more stuff.

Other folks however, are perfectionists and that is the root cause of their hoarding.
Say what???

That's right, if they don't have the time or don't know quite how to organize a space perfectly they put it aside thinking that someday they will get back to it. However, if they don't get back to it the disorder grows and spreads and eventually becomes so overwhelming that the person never even attempts to manage it because they know they couldn't get it perfect. WOW!!

If anyone is still reading at this point they are wondering where all of this rambling is headed........

Well, it occurred to me (and it just seems to keep coming back to me) that my dear, sweet husband has been after me to blog again ever since I stopped. He says his misses it. Which I think is sweet but surprising (he lives with me so he is already familiar with any material I have to blog about.) Nevertheless, after months of him pestering me and reminding me I still haven't picked it up again even thought there was never a time that I didn't intend to blog again soon.
So why haven't I posted???

I have not blogged because, I am a perfectionist.

See, I had this third baby and I got behind on house construction pics. Then, I just got behind on posting in general. But, I was gonna get it all sorted out! I was just a month, no three months, no a year behind, and then, and THEN it was all just to much and I couldn't catch up!!!! I didn't even know where to start!

So I didn't....until now.

Now I will blog because my honey wants me to blog and because I don't have to be perfect. Someone profound died so that I wouldn't have to be perfect and I needed to be reminded.
So, thank you "Hoarders Buried Alive."